Many single mothers are renters and there is nothing wrong with that. It is nice to have someone else do the repairs and handle the big problems with homes. Whether you are in an apartment, or a house, or even just renting a room or two, it is important to make it feel like home. How is your home? Have you taken time to make it feel cozy? Do you have photos displayed? Did you unpack your stuff? How are you taking care of the home that God has given you? Even if you are renting, you should care for your home with love. Keeping it clean and tidy goes a long way to make a place feel welcoming. If you have a yard, are you keeping up with it?
Now I know time runs very short for single moms but there is something refreshing about manual labor on your home. I might dread doing it but afterward I realize it feels more like home. This goes for the kids too. Get them involved in the upkeep and cleaning and organizing. They may give their loud objections but it will teach them responsibility and build confidence in them in being able to care for their own home one day.
I like to consider the 5 senses. Does my home smell pleasant with odors of food or flowers or fresh laundry? Are there nice pillows or blankets that are soft to the touch? Does my home look pleasant? What sounds are heard in my home? Yelling or pleasant talk and laughter and nice music? Lastly, do I take the time to make foods that delight the palate? Healthy foods are much more satisfying than junk.
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